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It is an interesting and sometimes unfortunate phenomenon that occurs in the lives of doctors, that I study more. It refers to the observations I have in the past 20 years in my conversations with the doctors who have agreed very demanding process.

I have noticed very busy doctors often is called into question with someone in the family, usually a spouse, who succumbs to a form of chronic disease (usually a mental illness). At first we simply declare themselves by saying that this will happen to anyone. Yes, that is true, but it is my hypothesis that an epidemiological study of this phenomenon in the lives of doctors might reveal an incidence rate that is slightly higher than in the general population.

After some thought to this conclusion is that I doctors are at greater risk for this phenomenon, which in their lives. I hope to explain why this should be.

It is my experience that some doctors tend to knowingly or unknowingly, distinguished himself persons who unconsciously looking to them for emotional rescue. It seems the nature of the profession, for doctors, if they are not careful, lightning rods for people with immature personality characteristics which qualified enough sympathy may cause. Doctors who are themselves narcissistically invested in the position to save others are most at risk for these unfortunate events.

Early in a relationship, as in many relationships, the full form of dysfunctionality, the manifesto remains dormant. Passion and romance often a sign of naivety that many realize until much later, if at all.

Over the years move and the doctor becomes more and more, in his / her practice creates an increasing burden on the marriage and the relationship more often than not, if not for this reason, the non-physician spouse often some form of mental illness.

If relationships do not end, ironically, this is often a sign of the mental health of non-physician spouse in refusing to tolerate the ongoing absence of the doctor's spouse in the relationship.

If it is not but it's almost as if the spouse is ill, conveying a message to the doctor spouse that more attention is required of them. Although neither partner is aware of the past, it is clear that the basis for the relationship is based on the necessity of the sick spouse to be "maintained" in which the physician spouse. This is the so-called "unconscious contract" "That was of the lovers.

Since the ill spouse increasingly sick of these places increasing pressure on the physician spouse to re-enter "the relationships and the care of the sick spouse. Whether this actually happens, however, often depends on two important factors (though not the two only) a) the amount of the debt of the physician spouses can not tolerate, in response to the abuse of spouse and b) the extent to which the physician spouse can tolerate feelings of intimacy.

What often happens is that the physician spouse begins to be felt in an untenable situation, only to channel the energy that they experience.

Interesting is the energy channel is also supported by the narcissistic investment, or "need" "the doctor has to" rescue others. " Such a pattern is in early childhood conditioning when a child in the unfortunate situation, for the care of a sick parent emotionally.

This is a child to help parents "survive", so that they can fend off even feeling their own inner feelings of sadness and destruction are a threat. They are then conditioned with a sense of sadness, anxiety or emotional pain comes from inside .

The fear is adopted by compulsive behavior of the rescue of people (ie, patients in later life), the feelings of emotional pain in the growing child. By rescuing the child's behavior is also hoping to recall loving appreciation and security for themselves by their parents sick.

The rescue pattern in the doctor of adult relationships (eg marriage and patient relations) simply repeats the relationship they had as a child with her parents sick.

The sad part about all this is that the doctor feels trapped "in" "The rescue pattern itself. Trapped because they do not tolerate the feelings of sadness, they experience when others around them are sick, yet they can not leave because their own emotional integrity depends on the location to the other.

So many doctors are under such a burden are often plagued with feelings of guilt to want to go. This guilt paralyze and undermine their health in serious ways.

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Nick Arrizza MD, a former psychiatrist and doctor is an International Life, Executive, Organizational Tele-Coach, Author, Keynote Speaker, trainer and presenter. He is also on Faculty at Akamai University in Hawaii. He is the CEO and founder of Arrizza Performance Coaching Inc. and the developer of the powerful Mind Resonance Procedure (MRP).

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